Web site development thoughts- chronicled

It’s Jan 8, 2018. I’ve done very little on this project since sept as my creative time has been writing a book.
* I still like the idea – provide our insights, methods,texhniques and research on the topic.
* Don’t make it a “social” site. People can comment on posts, but – at least initially – not write their own.
* But they can send me ideas to pursue – or their own posts which I would vett and publish. The writeit will have a email link and a post link – both will go to me and not be published till I OK it. All posts will be attributed to the poster, and I need the email address of the poster which will be used only by myself in regards to the site.
* I think the categories are too complex. They are needed if the site is to be a research site. Which it might become. But for now most people I think would just scan thru the pages.
* The page – I’ve tried a number of approaches with a nice heading, pictures, and the like. I think the best approach will be to:
a. Makes a narrow, colourful header saying DIYAging levering the power of age to age gracefully at home.
b. Make the categories even fewer – like
c. All posts should have a picture and it should be smaller than current. (It’s already just 200×200 but it looks much larger???)[metaslider id=512]Continue reading

Post 3 – next steps

  1. Title under the logo should be smaller and centered. I tried some css but apparently didn’t get it right. Is the css available to get the right names, etc??
  2. Need to make a image file and get all thefeatured images into it, and then upload.
  3. Down load posts and see if they show up ok
  4. Is there meta data to make the posts act like favorites.

About: James, Susan, and diyAgingINFO

The Why, What, Where,  and How of “diyAgingINFO”

Why spend time looking into, studying, and chronicling our plunge into elderhood? And I answer with another question: ” Why not? ” Combined we have, as I write this,   156 years worth of experiences and thoughts, careers in education, science, music and entrepreneurship. We’ve raised a family we are immensely proud of – and our grandkids too. We’ve been active in the arts and many community affairs.

And now we are in this grand experiment of aging, full of transitions, surprises, joy and sorrow. So far we are enjoying the run! Why not chronical some of our and others experiences – from a more or less positive point of view? Why not talk about some of our do-it-yourself tendencies in an era where through advertising and “our own good” we are strongly counselled to hand over our selves over to the experts? Why not try to surmount our tendencies toward perfection which make it very difficult to press the “publish” button before we have achieved an impossible perfection?

WHY NOT!

We’ll start with some background of how I see my own stages of elderhood.

My stages of elderhood

At 60 I didn’t understand what this getting older was all about. I skied, I hiked, I romanced, I worked, I danced.

At 70, I still skied, and hiked, and danced, but everything at a bit slower pace. Many, especially male, friends started dying – a sad eye opener to my own mortality.

At 80  my knees limit my hiking, have stopped my skiing. Romancing is a lot of effort. There is a definite feeling of being older than most, and a feeling of appreciation when younger folks accept Susan and me in their activities as a peer instead of a relic.

At 90? I wonder. we know people in their 90’s who are active and enthusiastic. That’s where we hope to be. We also see the frailness of those in their 90’s, the need for help, even when their spirit of independence is soaring.

The grand aging experience experiment

I’m involved in this aging experiment. I find it fascinating, strangely satisfying and enjoyable, despite the many needed adaptations, and curious in my acceptance of the mystery of the future.
I find it inspiring to know, and to read about the many people who have and are living very active, fulfilling lives at far advanced ages.

Curiosity endures

If anything, my curiosity for “just knowing” has expanded as I stack up the years. Alexa and her access to the internet is a joy, my skill at researching topics with the vast amount of information available right from my desktop computer is a continuous source of satisfaction. I find sanctuary roaming the library, scanning the ever-changing magazines, picking a section in the reference area and just roaming through the books, browsing well-run bookstores and marvelling at their selections of enticing books. I know I can’t read them all, but I can scan many of them.

For years I have kept a log of my findings, my activities, my research into -whatever. It’s not a job, it’s a need. It’s like when a writer is asked why do you write? Many respond, “I write because I must.” Ditto for me and my “philo-research.”

I’m an Intransigent do-it-yourselfer

I’m also a do it-your-selfer. Over the years I and my especially supportive spouse, have engaged in many projects. We’ve designed and hand built two houses, we started and ran a local, well-respected business, now under our son’s tutelage which just celebrated 45 years of operation. We grow and process a lot of our own food. We both are active in our own are creative endeavours. We slow travel for a month or more in most years in our, by today’s standards, tiny Toyota Tacoma pickup camper. We designed and coordinated a Burning Man festival theme camp for a number of years. We like dancing and tend toward the diy freedoms of improvisation.

Shy but social

We’re socially active, but rather shy, which gives us the energy of groups without the need to conform to undesirable, to us, group norms.

Born to Frugality

We’re the last of the great depression era babies. We were born into an era of needed furgality. We continue a frugal, just enough, life style because it feels right to us.

And now, by any standard, we have joined, been thrust, to the ranks of elder-hood. As we look over this scene of elders we find their is a lot of research going on for those elders who have been struck by the ails of elder-hood. But not much for those of us who are still very active and wish to continue this way – till we can’t.

Let’s study the heroes of aging – the “paragons”

I have often wondered why the medical profession is so intent on studying those who are sick. Why not study those that are well? It seems gerontology, the study of aging, continues the spirit of studying and compiling statistics for those  in need without bothering to study those who seem to be doing well..

Why not, I wondered, promote the study of wellness in aging through my and Susan’s own experiences? We expect, we too, will succumb eventually to the scourges, debilitations, and indignities of truly old age, but till that happens we want to stay as active, lively, enthusiastic, and full of vigor, as possible.

Our chronicle of aging begins.

Why not chronicle our activities, our research, our joys, and our disappointments, our set backs and our accomplishments, in this most fascinating, individualized, experiment of a life time – aging.

We hope you find topics of interest,and expand upon them in the comments, and perhaps send us ideas, topics for research, or your own essays of your ideas and experiences.

James (the I in the writing)

and

Susan (the “us”, “we” and “our” in the writing)

diyAging Info logo

Chronicling the adventures of aging.

 

In Home help company -“Home Instead.com”

One of the difficulties in aging in place is getting needed home help care. Businesses are springing up to handle the problem. They hire, train, take care of the business aspects of hiring helpers.
I heard an ad on NPR for this organization, but know nothing about them. Click here to peruse their website. It would be useful to others to have comments from folks using them. And to share reviews and links to other similar businesses.

Photo credit: Photo by Cristian Newman on Unsplash

TIME article: Aging with Purpose

 

“What’s your bucket list?”

At a dinner party last week, the subject of “aging with purpose” came up. My dinner companion, another elder, asked me what things I still had on my “bucket list.”  I thought for a minute and realized many of the things I would have said at a younger age I had actually accomplished. Others, like my early desire to build a 50 foot sailing yacht, learn how to sail well, and then mosey around the world for a year or two. have been off the list for a long time. Especially after talking with two couples who had done it and came away with a bunch of hi-lights  but mostly long stretches of  pure boredom.  Their comment,”the ocean is just plain huge.” For myself and wife, it turns out, kayak paddling and camping in the Canadian South Gulf islands suffices much better for our actual psychologies.

My bucket leaks – and well it should!

My bucket  list has leaks in the bottom. And that’s very fine with me. For instance diving from a 100 foot cliff into pure blue water, or going off a ski jump for a hundred meter flight, or climbing the face of El Capitan, are all activities I am glad leaked out of the bottom of my bucket list.

Today, I enjoy the process:  Seeing plays;  reading a good book sitting on a rock with the McKenzie river, and an occasional rafter rushing by; doing an energetic  dance; building one of my fused glass creations; writing a post for this blog, sitting beside our garden stove;  having an engaging conversation down at the local coffee shop about whatever is topical at the moment.  These are the things I now enjoy. I don’t need, or so I think, a bucket list.

Time article about aging with purpose

At about this time, TIME magazine came out with an article about a study which showed people having a purpose in life helps them maintain functions and independence as they age. I wonder where my love of activities fits on their purpose of life measuring stick?

People in the study, published in JAMA Psychiatry, who reported having goals and a sense of meaning were less likely to have weak grip strength and slow walking speeds: two signs of declining physical ability and risk factors for disability.

It’s a interesting article and here is the Time Magazine  link: Aging with purpose.

BBC-Podcast: Living long lives – Blessing or Curse

A one hour podcast about living well to advanced ages – and some worries and cautions.

The BBC News Hour Extre guests:

Dr Anne Karpf – Author of ‘How to Age’

Prof Lynda Gratton – Author of ‘The 100 Year Life’

Dr Alexandre Kalache – Co-President of the International Longevity Centre, Brazil

Also featuring:

Dr Bill Frankland – medical doctor still working at 105

The Radical Age Movement -leveraging the power of age

Here’s a group working for all of us aging folk
From their site: https://theradicalagemovement.com/about-the-radical-age-movement/

“Working together we can:

Challenge ageism – in ourselves, social practices, policies, and institutions
Create new language and models that embrace the full life journey;
Create new paradigms in society so that adults can participate fully consistent with their capabilities and ambitions at all stages of life;
Celebrate the contributions of older adults toward innovating, changing and repairing the world;
Create a more compassionate and interdependent society that supports the wellbeing of people of all ages;
Inspire and help develop cross-generational communities where people of all ages enjoy the gifts and capacities they have to offer;
Bring dying and death out of the closet.

The Longevity Project -Howard Friedman & Leslie Martin c 2011

In 1921 Dr Lewis Terman created a study group of 1528 children. Children selected by their teachers to be well adjusted and with potential. The idea was to follow these children for a lifetime to try and determine the traits and lifestyles which might provide predictors to longevity. The study has continued and one product, long after Dr Terman/s death is this book.

There is no poly-pill. Genes matter, life style matters, medical situations matter, and trauma, accidents, matter. Simply, (actually never simply) eating well, exercising, drinking sufficient water, staying trim, are all good – but no guarantee of a long life.

A couple of traits do stand out. Being conscientious. Those children deaned by teachers as conscientious, trying to do right, both maintained the trait over adulthood, but also lived, in general, long lives. Those people with large and solid social networks do well.

Many “myths” about ageing are addressed. The chapters include discussions about catastrophic thinking, divorce, masculinity/femininity, athletics, careers, religion, wars, and a last chapter about individual positive paths.

The book is aa easy and interesting read, full of statistics, and nicely enhanced with personal stories. Their motto; “follow the data.”

Hiring household help

This is a link to a hospice written article on writing a PD for help, interviewing, what legal forms are needed, etc. It is currently out of date, but the methodology is timeless. Some things: Fillo out the I9 form. Social security taxes must be paid if over $2000 total paid. Be sure home owners insurance covers in home workers. Do a PD so that both paries are aware of duties and agree on them. Always interview first.
Link to hospice article

My dwindling cohort – Memories from Anonymous

For those of us who were born in the depression and early world war II years this essay, author unknown (from a google search,possibly Ted Nugent -https://m.facebook.com/tednugent/posts/10154501062527297), forwarded to me from my sister in law is a memory jogger. I grew up in the era, and have both fond memories and permanent scars. If only I could pick and choose what to bring forward!
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> Children of “The Greatest Generation”
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> Born in the 1930s and early 40s, we exist as a very special age cohort. We
> are the Silent Generation. We are the smallest number of children born since
> the early 1900s. We are the “last ones.”
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> We are the last generation, climbing out of the depression, who can remember
> the winds of war and the impact of a world at war which rattled the
> structure of our daily lives for years.
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> We are the last to remember ration books for everything from gas to sugar to
> shoes to stoves.
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> We saved tin foil and poured fat into tin cans.
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> We hand mixed white stuff with yellow stuff to make fake butter.
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> We saw cars up on blocks because tires weren’t available.
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> We can remember milk being delivered to our house early in the morning and
> placed in the milk box on the porch. [A friend’s mother delivered milk in a
> horse-drawn cart.]
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> We are the last to hear Roosevelt’s radio assurances and to see gold stars
> in the front windows of our grieving neighbors.
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> We can also remember the parades on August 15, 1945, VJ Day.
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> We saw the “boys” home from the war build their Cape Cod style houses,
> pouring the cellar, tar papering it over and living there until they could
> afford the time and money to build it out.
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> We are the last generation who spent childhood without television. Instead
> we imagined what we heard on the radio. As we all like to brag, with no TV,
> we spent our childhood “playing outside until the street lights came on.”
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> We did play outside and we did play on our own. There was no Little League.
> There was no city playground for kids. To play in the water, we turned the
> fire hydrants on and ran through the spray.
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> The lack of television in our early years meant, for most of us, that we had
> little real understanding of what the world was like. Our Saturday
> afternoons, if at the movies, gave us newsreels of the war and the Holocaust
> sandwiched in between westerns and cartoons.
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> Telephones were one to a house, often shared and hung on the wall. Computers
> were called calculators and were hand cranked. Typewriters were driven by
> pounding fingers, throwing the carriage, and changing the ribbon.
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> The Internet and Google were words that didn’t exist. Newspapers and
> magazines were written for adults. We are the last group who had to find out
> for ourselves.
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> As we grew up, the country was exploding with growth. The G.I. Bill gave
> returning veterans the means to get an education and spurred colleges to
> grow. VA loans fanned a housing boom. Pent-up demand coupled with new
> installment payment plans put factories to work.
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> New highways would bring jobs and mobility. The veterans joined civic clubs
> and became active in politics. In the late 40s and early 50s the country
> seemed to lie in the embrace of brisk but quiet order as it gave birth to
> its new middle class (which became known as Baby Boomers).
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> The radio network expanded from 3 stations to thousands of stations. The
> telephone started to become a common method of communications and “Faxes”
> sent hard copy around the world.
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> Our parents were suddenly free from the confines of the depression and the
> war and they threw themselves into exploring opportunities they had never
> imagined.
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> We weren’t neglected but we weren’t today’s all-consuming family focus. They
> were glad we played by ourselves “until the street lights came on.’” They
> were busy discovering the post war world.
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> Most of us had no life plan, but with the unexpected virtue of ignorance and
> an economic rising tide we simply stepped into the world and started to find
> out what the world was about.
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> We entered a world of overflowing plenty and opportunity, a world where we
> were welcomed. Based on our naïve belief that there was more where this came
> from, we shaped life as we went.
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> We enjoyed a luxury. We felt secure in our future. Of course, just as today,
> not all Americans shared in this experience. Depression poverty was deep
> rooted.
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> Polio was still a crippler.
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> The Korean War was a dark presage in the early 50s, and by mid-decade,
> school children were ducking under desks.
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> Russia built the Iron Curtin and China became Red China.
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> Eisenhower sent the first “advisors” to Vietnam, and years later, Johnson
> invented a war there.
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> Castro set up camp in Cuba and Khrushchev came to power.
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> We are the last generation to experience an interlude when there were no
> existential threats to our homeland. We came of age in the 40s and early
> 50s. The war was over and the Cold War, terrorism, Martin Luther King, civil
> rights, technological upheaval, global warming, and perpetual economic
> insecurity had yet to haunt life with insistent unease.
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> Only our generation can remember both a time of apocalyptic war and a time
> when our world was secure and full of bright promise and plenty. We have
> lived through both.
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> We grew up at the best possible time, a time when the world was getting
> better, not worse.
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> We are the Silent Generation, “the last ones.”
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> Author unknown
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> The last of us was born in 1942, more than 99.9% of us are either retired or
> dead, and all of us believe we grew up in the best of times!

Structuring the menu – organizing, adding, images, pages, posts

1. Have tabs open for menu: dashboard > appearance > menu
pages: dashboard > pages > new
2. Images – have 48×48 image for the category being wored on.
3. Add a page by cloning the home page (choose pagebuilder, layouts, clone, ), or other page simililar to what is desired. ie it has the masthead menu with logo, the first row with the search and print wichits, the third row with the title of the page (ie category), and the third row with the post loop)
4. Update the page – The title line – have the category name and tag line.
Include a text blurb about the category if desired, or a link to a post about it.
5. save- update-publish – make the changes stick however depending on where in the process.
6. Go to Menus. The page just completed will now be showing in the list of possiblie menu items. Select it, and clickk add to menu.
7. Go to the menu item and open (down arrow on right), and add the 48×48 image, the
in the title, the tiktle below image checked, and review for other settings.
8. Save it, and review. Make any needed changes.
9 The idea is that each page looks like all the others in terms of masthead, search, and footer. But content is different.

Over all sequence.
1. determine minu item name, find an image, convert to 48×48 and black and white (unslpash, my photos, web,elements (artist water color posterize or outline); Make a page; Add the page as a menu item.

Difference between a page item for the menu and a category for menu item:
It seems like the page gives more control. BUT, I’m not sure what picking a category link actually does. So I should check that out .

Status Nov 7, 2016 – Vantage Masthead holdup

  • I let myself get stuck on a Vantage theme/wordpress problem. I can’t get the masthead to squeeze down to the size of the full width logo. I’ve tried all the setting I can find – except of course the one I need. I’ve tried custom css. I think I am not understanding all the terms, and the relationship between the menu, the logo, masthead, header, how wickets add to the header or masthead, and the various options available for each choice. Options that sometimes seem to effect other, seemingly separate, options.
  • I experimented with the post display, and somehow squeezed all the posts to tiny blocks on the right. I did a buch of experimenting and unsqueezed them. But, couldn’t duplicate either. So, I’m not as up to steam in that area as I would like.
  • The affirmations are working and I am slowly going through the very long list and editing them. Since they are from my own daily affirmations, started way back in the late 90’s after reading the “Artist way” not all have universal application, and many have spelling and grammatical errors, since I do no editing on my daily log.
  • Next steps:
  • 1. skip the masthead problem, and let it all mull around, and come back to it later.
  • 2. Add links- I keep coming across more and more useful links and they are easy to add.
  • 3.Add book reviews. Being Mortal, The gift of Caring, Big Magic, The artist way, (go thru my book list and choose appropriate titles. )
  • 4.Every day or so watch a video of others doing wp/vantage websites, and read more in the vantage documentation. Read for a while with no doing – until I can’t stand the not doing – then look over the problem areas again!
  • 5. Under admin displa a sub menu showing the website development posts. In the other areas, see if I can NOT include web site development posts.

 

Mast head, header, menu logo and widgets

It is confusing to be how the masthead and header and logo interrelate.

  1. is the masthead a container for the header and logo.
  2. Is the menu a part of the masthead, – or header – or it’s own area.
  3. when a widget is added to the header it displays to the left – right over the header picture text. (Granted the picture is background as far as the widget knows.
  4. two widgets – I thought they might stack horizontally. Hence I could put in a blank text widget to move the first one over. Seems to stack vertically, though.
  5. When the widget gioes into the masthead it expands the mast head and makes it twice the vertical height.
  6. Things to try.
    1. read/watch a video and ee how others do similar.
    2. take out the background and use a blank background and no logo.