Still Surveying at 102.
“Having good genes helps,” says Bob Vollmer , who is retiring to even more activities – at 102.
Read about this remarkable “paragon of aging” interviewed by NPR
Tinkering Toward Art
An organized collection of galleries of our art, posts on various topics, and sections called Our art of (slow travel, housebuilding, workshop;garden; and other topics as we see fit.
Still Surveying at 102.
“Having good genes helps,” says Bob Vollmer , who is retiring to even more activities – at 102.
Read about this remarkable “paragon of aging” interviewed by NPR
Back at the turn of the century, Susan and I were in our sixties and beginning to think about retiring from active participation in our business. Peg Mayo, local author, psychotherapist, all round good woman, and her partner Don were doing gatherings of friends they called “Hoo Ha’s.” A Hoo-Ha is a pot-luck on the sandy beach of the river flowing through their property. It always included a huge elaborately designed fire, built and executed by Don. Besides the general convivial atmosphere, she usually provided a ceremony and group activities. At one, she asked each of us to think about something we wanted to do or accomplish in the coming decade. Out of the blue, knowing little about it, I said, “I want to go to the Burning Man Festival.”
Two years later we did just that, and it was the beginning of seven years of coordinating what became “The Elders” theme camp. We daily hosted an afternoon party with wine, crackers and brie, a background music of Bach rather than the more common techno, and opportunity for much intergenerational talk. We called the party “Brie, Bach and Talk.” Already we, and our 25 or so other elder camp mates , were well beyond the average Burning Man participant age. Would people come with hundreds of other opportunities available?
We were actually surprised that it worked. We would commonly have 80 to 100 people drop by, partially to drink wine, but mainly they came to talk, to chat with us about life’s issues, hopes, dreams, desires and problems. I enjoyed these afternoon get together immensely.
I remember one afternoon two couples came by, we chatted, and all of a sudden the two young woman just got up and left. “What happened?” we wondered. A few minutes they came back, red eyed and tears still streaming, and they said, “We just love the elders, but where are you in our daily lives. ” They were from LA, and they went on to say that they simply never have any contact with people outside their age cohort, other than parents and grandparents, and they are often far away.. “Where are you,” she plaintively asked. That is still our question. As we age it is very difficult to find and maintain young twenties, and thirties friends.
These memories of a decade and a half ago surfaced this morning as I was moving photos from Microsoft’s one drive. They had just sent me a note that I was over their new limit for free storage. A short video that I had done as a prelude to a Burning Man presentation popped up.
It’s, unfortunately a low resolution version, and I have no idea where the original might have gotten stored – if it did. But, I decided even the low resolution three minute montage of slides might be interesting to folks. It certainly has been one of our more intense and enjoyable aging experiences.
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My dwindling cohort – Memories from Anonymous
For those of us who were born in the depression and early world war II years this essay, author unknown (from a google search,possibly Ted Nugent -https://m.facebook.com/tednugent/posts/10154501062527297), forwarded to me from my sister in law is a memory jogger. I grew up in the era, and have both fond memories and permanent scars. If only I could pick and choose what to bring forward!
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> Children of “The Greatest Generation”
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> Born in the 1930s and early 40s, we exist as a very special age cohort. We
> are the Silent Generation. We are the smallest number of children born since
> the early 1900s. We are the “last ones.”
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> We are the last generation, climbing out of the depression, who can remember
> the winds of war and the impact of a world at war which rattled the
> structure of our daily lives for years.
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> We are the last to remember ration books for everything from gas to sugar to
> shoes to stoves.
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> We saved tin foil and poured fat into tin cans.
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> We hand mixed white stuff with yellow stuff to make fake butter.
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> We saw cars up on blocks because tires weren’t available.
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> We can remember milk being delivered to our house early in the morning and
> placed in the milk box on the porch. [A friend’s mother delivered milk in a
> horse-drawn cart.]
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> We are the last to hear Roosevelt’s radio assurances and to see gold stars
> in the front windows of our grieving neighbors.
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> We can also remember the parades on August 15, 1945, VJ Day.
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> We saw the “boys” home from the war build their Cape Cod style houses,
> pouring the cellar, tar papering it over and living there until they could
> afford the time and money to build it out.
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> We are the last generation who spent childhood without television. Instead
> we imagined what we heard on the radio. As we all like to brag, with no TV,
> we spent our childhood “playing outside until the street lights came on.”
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> We did play outside and we did play on our own. There was no Little League.
> There was no city playground for kids. To play in the water, we turned the
> fire hydrants on and ran through the spray.
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> The lack of television in our early years meant, for most of us, that we had
> little real understanding of what the world was like. Our Saturday
> afternoons, if at the movies, gave us newsreels of the war and the Holocaust
> sandwiched in between westerns and cartoons.
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> Telephones were one to a house, often shared and hung on the wall. Computers
> were called calculators and were hand cranked. Typewriters were driven by
> pounding fingers, throwing the carriage, and changing the ribbon.
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> The Internet and Google were words that didn’t exist. Newspapers and
> magazines were written for adults. We are the last group who had to find out
> for ourselves.
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> As we grew up, the country was exploding with growth. The G.I. Bill gave
> returning veterans the means to get an education and spurred colleges to
> grow. VA loans fanned a housing boom. Pent-up demand coupled with new
> installment payment plans put factories to work.
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> New highways would bring jobs and mobility. The veterans joined civic clubs
> and became active in politics. In the late 40s and early 50s the country
> seemed to lie in the embrace of brisk but quiet order as it gave birth to
> its new middle class (which became known as Baby Boomers).
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> The radio network expanded from 3 stations to thousands of stations. The
> telephone started to become a common method of communications and “Faxes”
> sent hard copy around the world.
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> Our parents were suddenly free from the confines of the depression and the
> war and they threw themselves into exploring opportunities they had never
> imagined.
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> We weren’t neglected but we weren’t today’s all-consuming family focus. They
> were glad we played by ourselves “until the street lights came on.’” They
> were busy discovering the post war world.
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> Most of us had no life plan, but with the unexpected virtue of ignorance and
> an economic rising tide we simply stepped into the world and started to find
> out what the world was about.
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> We entered a world of overflowing plenty and opportunity, a world where we
> were welcomed. Based on our naïve belief that there was more where this came
> from, we shaped life as we went.
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> We enjoyed a luxury. We felt secure in our future. Of course, just as today,
> not all Americans shared in this experience. Depression poverty was deep
> rooted.
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> Polio was still a crippler.
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> The Korean War was a dark presage in the early 50s, and by mid-decade,
> school children were ducking under desks.
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> Russia built the Iron Curtin and China became Red China.
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> Eisenhower sent the first “advisors” to Vietnam, and years later, Johnson
> invented a war there.
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> Castro set up camp in Cuba and Khrushchev came to power.
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> We are the last generation to experience an interlude when there were no
> existential threats to our homeland. We came of age in the 40s and early
> 50s. The war was over and the Cold War, terrorism, Martin Luther King, civil
> rights, technological upheaval, global warming, and perpetual economic
> insecurity had yet to haunt life with insistent unease.
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> Only our generation can remember both a time of apocalyptic war and a time
> when our world was secure and full of bright promise and plenty. We have
> lived through both.
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> We grew up at the best possible time, a time when the world was getting
> better, not worse.
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> We are the Silent Generation, “the last ones.”
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> The last of us was born in 1942, more than 99.9% of us are either retired or
> dead, and all of us believe we grew up in the best of times!
Here’s a group working for all of us aging folk
From their site: https://theradicalagemovement.com/about-the-radical-age-movement/
“Working together we can:
Challenge ageism – in ourselves, social practices, policies, and institutions
Create new language and models that embrace the full life journey;
Create new paradigms in society so that adults can participate fully consistent with their capabilities and ambitions at all stages of life;
Celebrate the contributions of older adults toward innovating, changing and repairing the world;
Create a more compassionate and interdependent society that supports the wellbeing of people of all ages;
Inspire and help develop cross-generational communities where people of all ages enjoy the gifts and capacities they have to offer;
Bring dying and death out of the closet.
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I heard on NPR this morning a interview with an 80 plus year old Japanese lady who at 53 came to the US to study gerontology, then at 83 started a “cheer leading” group which is still performing.
It’s a heartwarming example of staying relevant, staying active, and enjoying life while aging.
Here’s a link to see them in action and to learn more about the program.
Link to the Village to Village Network
Many folks, myself included, wish to maintain the autonomy and freedoms and joy of living out our lives in our own homes. But, as we age, even those of us who are quite active, find that adaptations need to be continually made. Handling roof projects becomes a no-no. Then pruning and other heavy yard work. Our houses need modification. Hand rails. Our friends and associate move away and die off leaving us potentially socially stranded. And as we all know it goes on and on.
One approach to create an organization, a “village” of older folks helping each other. That’s what the villages of the village to village network is about.
There about 200 active villages in the US. If there is one near you, check the site and consider joining. If there is not one near you, you might consider starting one. The Village toVillage network has a wealth of information to help. Check out their link at the top of this page. I call it “co housing” with out the house!”
The Village to Village Network has been created by Villages for Villages.
Village to Village Network helps communities establish and manage their own Villages.
VtV Network has been developed in response to requests from Villages nationwide.
Village to Village Network:
Villages: